I Didn’t Think I Took It for Granted …

I didn’t think I took it for granted. But, now I’m seeing that I did.

I grew up in the 70s & 80s. Looking back, my parents had my younger brother and I under training at all times. They taught us everything. They taught us how to act, how to be respectful, how to be appreciative, how to be accountable, how to work hard, how to speak to others, and much more. Some of our training and lessons were learned the hard way. But as I reflect on the lessons my parents imparted in us, I’m grateful. I’m grateful because my brother and I were raised the right way and this has paid off for us. We know how to operate, act, speak, problem solve, interact with others, and be successful.

I am a middle school teacher. I deal with hundreds of 11-14 year olds on a daily basis. And I write this sincerely, honestly, and with urgency. Today’s children need our help. Today’s children need to be taught. 

The number is growing rapidly. The number of kids I interact with each day who haven’t been taught is getting concerning. Kids who don’t know how to act respectfully. Kids who speak rudely and inappropriately to each other and to adults. Kids who have zero stamina to work and complete basic tasks. Kids who see no connection between their education and their future. Kids who are addicted to technology and devices. Kids who are learning from and being taught by social media instead of parents or trusted adults. 

I have been a teacher for nearly 30 years, and I have never felt more defeated than I do right now about where many of our young people are headed. 

Something needs to change. Our children need to be taught.

Parents who are not training and teaching your children: where are you? Why are you not raising your children with integrity? Do you have any idea the type of failure you are setting your children up for? 

If your child is best known for being disrespectful, using inappropriate language, causing drama, starting conflicts, not completing work, and not caring about anything, what do you think is in store for their future?

Kids can be formed, molded. They are a product of what they see and are allowed to do day by day. For their sake, we need to take advantage of each opportunity with them and help them to learn life lessons.    ~ Chris T. www.poweroftheoverflow.com